Weddings are all about love, happiness, and gratitude. And when the big day is over, it’s time to express your appreciation to those who made it special. One of the best ways to do this is by sending thank you cards to your guests. But how do you do it right? In this article, we’ll guide you through the etiquette of wedding thank you cards, so you can show your gratitude in style.
Why Send Thank You Cards?
Thank you cards are a traditional way of expressing gratitude to those who attended your wedding and/or gave you gifts. They let your guests know that you appreciate their presence and their generosity. Thank you cards also serve as a reminder of your special day and can help you stay in touch with your loved ones.
When to Send Them?
Ideally, you should send your thank you cards within two to three months after your wedding. However, if you’re having a destination wedding or a honeymoon immediately after, you can extend the deadline to four to six months. It’s better to send them late than never, so don’t stress too much about the exact timing.
Who to Send Them To?
You should send thank you cards to everyone who attended your wedding and/or gave you a gift, even if they couldn’t make it. If you received multiple gifts from the same person or couple, you should send a separate thank you card for each gift. If you had a large wedding, you can ask for help from your maid of honor or mother to keep track of the guests and their gifts.
What to Include?
Your thank you cards should be personalized and heartfelt. Start by addressing the recipient by name and thanking them for attending your wedding and/or giving you a gift. Then, mention something specific about the gift or their presence that made your day special. You can also add a personal message, a photo of your wedding, or a quote that reflects your gratitude. Don’t forget to sign your names at the end.
What Not to Include?
Avoid mentioning the exact amount of money or the value of the gift you received. It’s also not necessary to explain why you chose a specific gift or how you plan to use it. Keep your tone positive and gracious, and focus on the joy of the occasion.
How to Design Them?
Your thank you cards should reflect your wedding style and personality. You can choose a classic or a modern design, a color scheme that matches your wedding theme, or a photo of you and your spouse. You can also add a personal touch, such as a handwritten note or a custom stamp. Make sure the design is legible and easy to read, and that the card is of good quality.
Conclusion
Sending thank you cards is a meaningful and thoughtful way to express your gratitude to your wedding guests. By following the etiquette guidelines, you can make sure your thank you cards are sincere, personal, and memorable. Don’t forget to enjoy the process and have fun designing your cards!
FAQs
Q: Can I send thank you cards via email or social media?
A: While it’s more convenient to send thank you messages electronically, it’s not as personal and heartfelt as a handwritten card. If you’re short on time or budget, you can send a digital card or an e-card, but make sure to follow the same etiquette guidelines.
Q: Do I have to send thank you cards to my vendors?
A: It’s not mandatory to send thank you cards to your vendors, but it’s a nice gesture to show your appreciation for their hard work and contribution to your wedding. You can send a thank you card or a small gift after the wedding, or write a positive review on their website or social media.
Q: What if I forgot to send a thank you card?
A: It’s never too late to say thank you! If you forgot to send a thank you card, you can still do it now and explain that you’ve been busy with the honeymoon or the post-wedding tasks. Better late than never!
